Wednesday, October 31, 2012

Why I'm Voting Yes for the Minnesota Marriage Amendment

On November 6th, Minnesotans will have the opportunity to vote on whether our state constitution should be amended to restrict the definintion of marriage to one man and one wonman.
This amendment would add a 13th section to Article XIII of the MN Constitution. Article XIII is a compilaton of miscellaneous issues ranging from miltia organization to hunting and fishing preservation. If the amendment passes, one more section would be added stating,"Only a union of one man and one woman shall be valid or recognized as a marriage in Minnesota." (http://ballotpedia.org/wiki/index.php/Minnesota_Same-Sex_Marriage_Amendment,_Amendment_1_(2012)
Without this amendment, state judges and legislators have the freedom to redefine marriage and impose personal values without the permission of Minnesota citizens.
Marriage is an institution that should be valued and protected. Here are some of the reasons why I will be voting "Yes" in support of the marriage amendment.
  • For the sake of our children
Children fare better when they are raised with a father and a mother. Is a mother unnecessary if a child should have two fathers? Is a father useless if a child has two mothers? Both genders of parents offer such distinctive contributions in the raising of children that society has been deceived when it thinks that same-sex parenting is just as effective as raising children in a heterosexual marriage. The diversity brought by men and women into marriage, parenting, and family life are not able to be interchanged with the care that would be given by two men or two women. Fathers and mothers fulfill differnt needs for children, and both contribute essential building blocks in the various developmental stages of children.
As the focus of marriage shifts from creating a nurturing atmosphere for children to be raised in to being all about what the parents want--whether that be co-habiting, divorce, polygamy, or same-sex marriage--children suffer consequences, both in childhood and adulthood.
  • Effects on society
Studies conducted with adults who were raised in traditional mother/father families vs. adults who were raised with a parent involved in a same-sex relationship found that those raised in tradtional families reported the lowest levels of troubles, such as drug use, unemployment, and depression. Also 10% of adults from traditional families were currently using public assistance vs. 38% who had a parent in a same-sex realtionship while they were growing up. (http://www.nytimes.com/2012/06/12/health/study-examines-effect-of-having-a-gay-parent.html?_r=0)
  • To protect our freedoms
The Minnesota marriage amendment helps to protect religious organizations, small businesses, and even individuals who hold to the traditional definition of marriage from being legally regarded as bigots and discriminators. There are already examples of religious groups, non-profits, and licensed professionals who have been penalized or forced to close their agencies because they have refused to change their principles to coincide with the redifinition of marriage. (http://www.minnesotaformarriage.com/threat/)

Any of these reasons themselves would be good enough for a "Yes" vote on the amendment, but for me the most important and strongest motivators for promoting traditional marriage are the ones listed below.

  • Marriage is sacred
God created marriage as a symbol of his relationship with his "bride," those called to be his followers. Marriage is an image of the eternal covenant between Christ and his church. To redefine this sacred institution, to try to re-create it into something that fits the desires and acceptance of society is to scorn the beautiful picture that God has created of his love and sacrifice for his people. (http://www.desiringgod.org/dg/id167.htm)
  • God's Word is authoritative
I respect the Bible as the words of God. As a follower of Christ, I realize that attntion to and high regard for what is spoken there is essential in my conviction that God is supreme and sovereign. The Bible is not something that is menat to be interpreted according to physical needs and desires, nor is it meant to be re-formed to fit the acceptance of our culture. The Bible is absolute. When it says that homosexuality is wrong, there is eternal danger in turning away and ignoring this admonition.
I don't deny that homosexual desires are real. Yet, they are not an excuse for the approval and condoning of sin. God allows sinful desires in each person's heart to show us our need for him.

In voting to support the marriage amendment, I am not being hateful to those who defend gay marriage.  On the contrary, I see this as an opportunity to love by stating what I believe to be right rather than turning away from or even winking at things that oppose God's Word.

"Love is the overflow of joy in God that meets the needs of others."
-John Piper
 



Monday, July 25, 2011

Make-A-Salad Muffin Tin

Muffin Tin Monday saved me from feeding my kids McD's for lunch today :)
We had a busy morning playing/weeding at our garden plot and visiting a new (to us) splash pad, and we were all hot and hungry when lunch time rolled around. Driving through somewhere was very tempting, but I ignored the fast foodies on the way home and told the kids they would have to wait and be hungry a little longer than usual. I had boiled carrots, beets, and eggs before we left this morning, so it was just a matter of washing up a few other veggies and chopping everything up. Pretty easy, and a big success!!! 

Peas, fresh from the garden,
Beets, Eggs, and Carrots, boiled and cubed
Lettuce, Apples, Tomatoes, Pickles, Cukes,
Cheese, Crackers, and Cottage Cheese

My motivation for this meal was the increasing whininess that has been heard around the kitchen table whenever vegetables are served. I figured a Muffin Tin Salad would be a great way to make eating veggies fun and interesting and would take away some of that dread of eating vegetables. The rule was that they had to take at least one thing from each cup, which they did with no complaints, whines, or grumbles. Yeah! And they took seconds of most of the stuff. Eliana even said it was the best lunch she'd ever had--that made my day.

So, what are some other moms serving up in their muffin tins? Check it out here:
Muffin Tin Monday at MuffinTinMom.com

Monday, July 11, 2011

My First Muffin Tin Meal

The other day I stumbled across a blog called Muffin Tin Mom. As the title would indicate, this mom has a ton of creative, fun, and healthy ideas for serving up meals to her kiddos in muffin tins. I was immediately enchanted by the idea and thought this would be a great way to make our most-often-served breakfast of  hot 7 Grain cereal a bit more interesting. I decided to turn my muffin tin into a mini-buffet of oatmeal toppings and let the kids "dress" the cereal themselves.


Peanut Butter, Pureed Peaches, Raisins, Apple Sauce, Carob Chips, Milled Flax Seed,
Blueberries, and Strawberries. And two cups of carrot juice for the breakfast beverage.

adding some blueberries

mmmm . . .  such gooey goodness

yes, these are happy faces -- they loved it
getting ready to dig in
even Ashley got in on some of the fun

Our Muffin Tin breakfast was a huge success, and the kids are asking when we're going to do it again! Soon, I hope -- after I re-stock the fridge and cupboards with some more muffin-sized edibles. But for now I'm going to pop on over here to the Muffin Tin Mom and see what other MTMeals I can add to my menu planning.


Friday, June 10, 2011

31 Days to Clean: Not the Grand Finale I'd Hoped For

First off, let me say that I loved this book. It has helped me to think about how I can manage my home with God at the center. So many times I read the how-to's of homemaking and come away with frenzied thoughts of how I need to cook better, be more hospitable to others, and scrub my kitchen floor more often. I tend to get stressed out easily and discouraged when my life doesn't look nice and neat (which is almost always). That's why I love how Sarah Mae takes time emphasize what is most important and what is eternal, the God-focused matters of the heart. This was way more than a to-do list. The devotionals were practical, sometimes convicting, and saturated with Biblical wisdom.
Of course, I still wanted to finish the 31 days with a shiny, sparkling home. But I didn't quite make it. In a previous post, I wrote that I fell way behind with family vacation, my grandma's death, and Chris's frequent work travels. On top of that, it was a big month for gardening, and many extra hours were spent outdoors. I have to say that I started out the month very enthusiastically, in spite of knowing that I'd have to crunch to complete all the Martha challenges. The wind completely left my sails, however, when it came time to work on window treatments. Probably the most monstrous blunder of all my homemaking years was made when I over-zealously decided that the best way to clean my living room and dining room drapes would be to stick them in the washer. Writing this just makes me wish I could go back and have that day to do over again. I felt sick when I saw the limp, shrunken drapes that resulted from my foolhearty fervidness and wondered what in the world I was thinking. It's hard not to make a mistake that ruins hundreds (possibly thousands) of dollars worth of household items and not want heap on myself torturous reprimands of how I should have been more cautious and knowledgable of such things. I mean, really, how can I take care of a whole house and family when I don't know the do's and don't's of keeping my window treatments alive and well?
So I took a break for awhile and just focused on the everyday tasks--laundry, dishes, and picking up. Slowly I've began reading again. I'm focusing only on the Mary challenges for now, but I want to start doing the Martha challenges again too. I've been greatly encouraged by some of the quotes from Day 12:
"We have Jesus' perfection imparted to us for all of eternity if we know Him (Hebrews 10:14)"
Your worth does not lie in your ability to clean well; your worth and value lie in Chrst alone."
". . . ask God to replace any lies you are believing with the truth."
So, looking back, I have to say that over all, the readings, the challenges, the blunders, the accomplishments have been good for me. As I've looked into the crevices of my home and worked on cleaning some of those hidden areas, I've also taken a closer look at the crevices of my heart and some of the overlooked areas there that need some dusting and polishing.
This seems like an incongruous and lighthearted way to end this post, but the song from Nemo, "Just Keep Swimming," is repeating itself over and over in my brain. I guess I need simple Nemo-song reminders too. So, here's to another day of swimmning and not heeding the temptation to give up. Thanks, Nemo, and thanks, Sarah Mae, for offering this heart-and-home check!

We Went to Disney World!!!


Here are some pictures of our first-ever, week-long, no work calls or emails allowed, family vacation!

My deal-wheeling hubby got a fabulous package for a price that we may never see again, and we decided to go for it!

Two of Seth's favorites: Woody and the "big golf ball."

Oh, and it just happened to be Star Wars weekend!

It was hot! And we consumed lots of cold water.

This was the ride that we probably rode most as a family. It is the Animal Kingdom's equivalent to Magic Kingdom's Dumbo ride, except this one had stegosauruses instead of elephants.

The two older kids loved meeting the characters. Ashley did not care for them much at all (which is why she is not in these pictures).

One morning we got to Magic Kingdom early enough to see their opening show. Here are Chris, Seth, and Ashley waiting for the show to begin.

The carrousel was another family favorite.

Eliana and Mary Poppins.

Ashley spent many, many hours in this stroller. After a few days, she discovered that she liked pushing it even more than riding in it.
 
The kids also enjoyed the pool at our hotel. Seth really got the hang of doggie-paddling and worked up the courage to not hang on the side of the pool the whole time. Bravo, Setho!

Rollercoasters, prizes for finding the hidden paint brush on Tom Sawyer Island, getting picked to talk to Crush at the Animal Kingdom, and spectacular shows are things that will be easy to remember. But Chris and I also wanted to document the little things that could easily be forgotten next to flying carpets and dancing parrots.
Things like Seth quips: "Dad, are they singing 'It's a small world, Jessica?'" or later while standing in line for Thunder Mountain: "Dad, did you know that at Red Clobster they serve real clobsters?"
Diaper changes, overflowing diapers (oops), and naps in the stroller.
Three kids falling asleep on the late-night bus back to our hotel and trying to unload them, a stroller, and a backpack (and passengers who kindly helped out).
Swimming, sweating, sunscreen, and singing "Go With the Flow-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh-oh" oh-ver, and oh-ver, and oh-ver.
A late-night plane ride, a restless baby, and sitting in our cramped up seats for an hour waiting for the storm to pass so we could take off.
Time with our friends, the Wangs, who did their Disney vacation the same week as us.
Light saber, double-knotted tennies, and sippy cups.
Eliana trying to be coaxed to ride the BIG rides and Seth wishing he were big enough to ride the BIG rides.


Friday, May 13, 2011

31 Days to Clean-Week 2

I have thoroughly enjoyed reading and working Sarah Mae's book, 31 Days to Clean. It's just what I needed to get me spurred on with the daunting task of Spring cleaning my home. The daily devotionals have been so relevant and convicting. The challenge to keep going, push on, do something, and not give in to that overwhelmed feeling that so often leads to laziness has come back to my mind over and over. Becase that's what I struggle with day after day! I need these reminders!
I started this month having just returned from my Grandmother's funeral which set me back a bit with getting started on the Martha Challenges. I've also spent an unusual amount of time away from home this month. By the end of the month, I will have been out of town a total of 11 days. So, obviously, I haven't been able to do the in-depth cleaning because of the need to double-up on tasks most days. But I have been getting them done and have enjoyed realizing the tasks that I would normally overlook, such as washing the living room curtains. Washing curtains is so easy to ignore when piles of dirty dishes and laundry seem to be multiplying faster than I can get them cleaned and put away. That's why I love lists--they remind me of jobs I wouldn't normally think of doing, and they make me feel okay that I'm leaving a basket (or three) of unfolded clothes in order to get on with these not-so-common tasks. I may end up carrying my Martha Challenges over into June, but as long as I keep plugging away on them I'll be happy to have them completed even if I am late.
On the other hand, being away from home has afforded me extra time to spend on the Mary Challenges which is, without a doubt, what I need most. I've had more time to focus, pray, and write. I have no doubt that God put the 31-day challenge, my grandmother's death, and fun family get-aways all in my life at the same time so that I could see His hand at work and get the most out of each situatoin!

http://joyfulmothering.net/2011/05/06/tag/31-days-to-clean/



Thursday, May 5, 2011

Good-bye 3, Hello 4

It's been almost three weeks since we celebrated Seth's birthday! So here is the long-overdue list of mommy memmories that I want to record so I can look back with smiles at what Seth is learning and accomplishing.
 
Some of the highlights of his year have been:
  • memorizing enough Bible verses to earn his Fighter Verse bag and 3 stars to put on it
  • being part of an Awana Cubbies group
  • joining a homeschool co-op
  • learning to read
  • playing Chess, Mancala, and lots of other games
  • beginning basic addition and subtraction
  • learning to make his bed and put his socks on by himself
Some of Seth's favorite activities are playing outside with Eliana, bringing Ashley her bottle of milk in the mornings, being my little Chef's Assistant in the kitchen, and eagerly awaiting Daddy's arrival from work in the evenings so they can play football, shoot hoops, or go for bike rides together. He also loves playing Chess, Mancala, Chutes & Ladders, Candy Lnad, Slamwich, Checkers, Dominoes, Uno Moo, Gobblet Gobblers, and Blokus. Such fun!

Looking back over Seth's past year, I have seen evidence of God's grace working in his heart. He is developing a desire to do right, follow instructions, and make wise choices even when influenced to do otherwise. He is respectful during church services and Sunday school classes, and he enjoys memorizing Bible verses. I pray that God will continue to work in his heart this year and that He will give Seth a soft heart that knows and loves Him.

Wednesday, April 20, 2011

Easter Craft: Stained Glass Cross (Greeting Cards)

It's craft time at our house. For Easter week, I'm keeping the school time list to a minimum. A big part of our time is being spent focusing on Easter and doing special projects to celebrate this special day.




On Monday, we made "stained glass" Easter cards to send out to family and friends. To make these cards, we covered a frying pan with tin foil, heated it  up enough that it would easily melt crayons, and then set to work making little puddles with our old, broken up Crayolas. When the piece of foil was full of colorful wax, we dipped our paper into it. Computer paper worked find, and pressed it into the pan using a spatula.



We did this until we had a fun assortment of brightly-colored "stained glass" papers.



Next, we traced cross shapes onto the backs of the papers, cut them out, and glued them onto card stock. Inside we wrote, "Happy Easter. Have a Wonderful Resurrection week. The Lord is Risen!" Then we addressed, stamped, and drove them to the post office.
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Friday, April 15, 2011

4.14.2001

The big event of the day was shopping the JBF Sale near our home! 500 consignors with tons of kids toys, clothing, and books set up for one weekend of mommy thrift shopping. The line at the door when they opened at 10:00 must have been about two blocks long. I was glad I only got there five minutes before they opened because it was cold and windy. And, this sale is so well organized, they got the line moving very quickly once they did open. I came away with a few cute clothing items, but I was mostly excited about the books I got: four books from the Usborne Young Puzzle Series, a great big hardback book of children's classic such as The Swiss Family Robinson, Tom Sawyer, and Anne of Green Gables, a book of children's electronics experiments, and 100 Marvels of the Modern World. And, if I may brag a bit, my kiddos did outstandingly well as I browsed the kiddie goodies.
The kids and I ran several other errands, mostly shopping for Seth's birthday coming up in only two days! I am so excited about the birthday cake he's getting. When I asked him the other day what kind of cake he wanted, he said a dolphin cake. As I usually do for the kid's birthdays, I started searching the web for the DIY birthday cakes. I was surprised at how many I found with dolphins. I decided to go ahead and try to make one myself even though my cake-decorating skills aren't that great. But while we were at the grocery store yesterday, I decided to walk past the bakery just to see what they had on hand in pre-made cakes. I was shocked when I walked up and saw a beautiful cake decorated with dolphins. I've always been too frugal to get the kids store bought cakes for their birthdays, but this was just too perfect. There were only two cakes on display that weren't just the generic flowers and balloons, and one of them happened to be a dolphin cake! I couldn't resist.
The picture's not great, but it does show that this fun and cute cake is way better than anything I would be able to come up with on my own. Seth and I were both pretty excited about it.
And, since I spent more than I was expecting on the birthday cake, I decided to save $15 on buying a pinata at Target and doing the DIY pinata instead. So far, in my opinion, making a pinata is a lot more fun than making a cake. The kids and I had a lot of fun slapping pieces of newspaper dipped in flour paste onto a balloon.Now we have to wait for it to dry and add some crepe paper. It's a messy project, but lots of fun! Here's how Mr. Pinata looks so far:
My whole kitchen may be covered with flour paste by the time we're done, but I guess that will give me a good excuse to scrub everything down really well!

Only two days until this sweet little man turns 4!!!



Tuesday, April 12, 2011

4.11.2011

I woke up so sore from the two jogging outings I took over the weekend. It had been waaaay too long since I'd been out for a run, and my muscles were feeling it big time!


I got to watch my sister's kids for most of the day. They are some of the most well-behaved, delightful children I know. It is always so nice to have them over for a visit.
Baby cousins looking longingly through the window at the big kids playing in the back yard

Seth is eagerly counting down the days to his birthday . . . only 5 more days until he turns 4!!! Now Mom needs to figure out what we're going to do to celebrate !

Growing up so quickly!

The sun is shining, I'm expecting my tulips to start blooming any day now, and I've got that itch to plant a garden again. I'm really hoping it'll work out for me to rent a plot at a community garden this year since our back yard is just too shady for a garden.

I'm still slooowly sorting through the kids' clothes, trying to set aside what they won't need this Spring and Summer and putting it away until Fall. Keeping the kids' clothes organized is a challenge. I love Minnesota, but changing out the wardrobes every 3 months is daunting for me . . . I think of my own childhood days spent on an island near the equator where the same clothes could be worn year round . . .

A friend and I decided to start a weekly Scripture memory meeting with each other. Our first goal is to memorize the book of Ephesians. This will be really good for me . . . memorizing Scripture is something I've been wanting to do more of, and having someone to report to each week will give me the nudge I need to get started.

Monday, April 11, 2011

31 Days to Clean

I love Spring time . . . flowers, sunshine, kids running around outside for hours at a time. But in my mind, the word Spring is often accompanied by another not-so-pleasant word: Cleaning. It's not that I don't enjoy cleaning or that I don't want to clean, but the not-so-pleasant feeling that comes with the word stems from the frustrations of not having enough time to keep things as clean as I'd like. I get easily discouraged because in a house with three small children, things don't stay clean. Also, I tend to get stuck on one or two tasks, such as dishes and laundry, and put all my focus on those chores while forgetting to set aside time to get other household jobs done. So, I love to have lists from people who have been through these same struggles and have figured out a method that works. That's why I was excited to find out about 31 Days to Clean-Having a Martha House the Mary Way. It looks like a fun, encouraging, not-too-strenuous way to get that Spring cleaning done. I'm excited to get started! Check out this downloadable book by clicking on the button on my sidebar.

I'm also doing the HomeMaker's Challenge. Find out more here.

Homemakers Challenge - 31 Days to Clean

Tuesday, March 29, 2011

An Answered Prayer on a Very Cold Day

This is a story of a bad situation I got myself into a few years ago and how God answered prayers and sent people to come to my rescue. It happened in the middle of winter, and I'm often reminded of it when the temps start to drop:



It was a bitterly cold January day--much like some of the days we've been experiencing here in Minnesota over the past few months: a biting, painful, merciless cold. I remember well driving up to the front door of our church building and deciding to let my children (2 and 9 months at the time) remain asleep in their carseats while I quickly ran inside to drop off some food containers for a church staff person. Since it was dangerously cold that day, I thought it would be best to leave my car running while I dashed inside so that the heater would stay on to keep my babies cozy.  I grabbed my spare set of keys, hit the auto-lock button on my door, and slammed it shut. I raced inside the building, not liking to leave the kids alone, but at the same time, relieved that they were not being disturbed from their naps. My delivery items were deposited on the kitchen counter, and I dashed the few steps to the door and back out to my car. Mission accomplished, and my wee ones were still sleeping soundly.  I grabbed the extra set of keys I had taken with me and fumbled with the lock . . . and fumbled some more . . . and then some more.
We've all had those sickening moments. The ones where the realization of something really awful settles on you like a bucket of sludge being poured over your head and making you want to sink underneath it. This was one of those moments for me. Peering into the back seat of my car at my sweet children, I realized they were trapped in there. What I had thought was a spare key for my car was actually not a key for my car at all ( I later learned that it was a key for my parents-in-law's van), and my only key was locked inside the car, still in the ignition, with my sleeping honeys.
The next half hour was somewhat of a blur. I had seen a repairman working on some wiring when I had run inside he church building earlier, so I went back to ask him if he had any skills breaking into cars. He looked at me suspiciously but was nice enough to come out and give it a try. Much to my dismay, his kind attempts to break into my car failed, and he suggested asking one of the custodians for help.
I went back in just as Jim, a former college acquaintance of my husband's and also a member of the church's custodial team, was walking by. When he ehard about my dilemna, he was more than willing to help out. He quickly went to get a coat hanger, which he said he'd been saving for just such an ememrgency as this, and ran out to work a trick to get my car door open. As I said before, this was a bitterly cold January day--the kind of cold that will numb your finges within seconds. The high temp that day was something insane, like a whole whoppin' 5 degrees. And there worked Jim, minute after minute after minute, trying everything he could think of to get that door open. At one point a small group of church staff gathered around, offering suggestions. Someone mentioned that sometimes the fire department would help out in such situations, so I gave them a call (thankfully, I did have my cell phone on me). To add embarassment to despair, a huge fire truck came roaring into the parking lot minutes after my call--lights, sirens, and all! With all the noise and flashiness, I was really hoping they would have just the right tool to pry open my car, but to my dismay, they informed me that the only thing they could do was bust out my window. Hmmm . . . no window . . . single-digit temps . . . two babes in the back seat . . .  that really didn't seem like the best option. So, I said no thank-you, asked them if the church would be billed for their visit (which they said it wouldn't), and waved good-bye. I tried calling a locksmith, but was told that it could be up to an hour before they showed up and that even if the door was pried open before they arrived, I'd still have to pay their fee. I knew that Chris, who was working only 10 minutes away, would probably be out of his meeting and able to get to us with his spare keys (I had been frantically leaving him voice messages) before the locksmith did, so this didn't seem like a reasonable option either.
By now, the kids were starting to wake up, staring in a sleepy daze at the strange faces peering in the windowsat them. Jim persisted. I'm guessing he had been working for half an hour and had just said that he had done about everything he could think of when the Executive Pastor, Sam Crabtree, drove up. On his way into the building, he stopped to get the scoop on what had happened, sensed the forboding mood that was descending, and asked the few people standing around to gather for prayer. It was a short prayer--a simple petition for God's help in our situation. He said Amen and went inside. Within a few short minutes, my car dor was open! (And yes, all windows were still intact!) Right after Pastor Sam's prayer, Jim had the idea to stick the coat hanger into the window, under the rubber lining betwen the window and door frame--and this time, instead of trying to catch the pop-up lock (which was shaped in a way to make it very difficult to hook onto), he caught the inside door handle, which automatically pops the lock up and opens the door. In answer to prayer, God had mercifully revealed the solution to our dilemna, just as Pastor Sam had asked. When we were at the end of all our ideas, God simply showed that He's there listening, loving, orchestrating, and helping.
On Wednesday nights, I work in my church's Preschool classroom. One of the other teachers in the room will often have the kids shout out, "Yeah God!" when the lesson is about something great God has done. And when I think about that cold January day, I too want to shout out, "Yeah God!" He used my foolishness to show His greatness and kindness.
On a humorous side-note, since this episode, Chris has cleverly nick-named his old college buddy "Slim Jim." Quite appropriate, wouldn't you say?

Thursday, October 28, 2010

Ashley is Eight Months Old!

 One of the things I like to do is keep a journal for my kids in which I write little updates on what they're doing, prayers, Scriptures, or little notes to let them know how special they are to me. As with most things in my world, keeping up with the kids' journals is something that I never have as much time for as I'd like but hope to be more consistent with "some day." Here is a bit from Ashley's jounal which I was able to get some time for on our recent trip to Illinois:

Monday, October 11, 2010

Road Trip

One of the great things about being a stay-at-home mom and homeschooling your kids is that we get to accompany Chris occasionally on one of his work trips. Last week it was to Rockford, IL. We got to spend three days in a new place while Chris worked on a new project at the Rockford plant. The kids and I don't usually venture far when we're on one of these trips.

Friday, July 9, 2010

Celebrating Independence

Family Reunions

One of the great things about summer is getting opportunities to see extended family. Every other year, my mom's side of the family gets together for a day or two to reconnect and fellowship. Most of the relatives that attend these reunions come from Amish backgrounds, so these times of sharing their common heritage are very special to them. I love getting together with my three-or four-times-removed cousins and hearing the lingering Amish accent, trying to sing along with the German songs that I've picked up bits and pieces to over the years, and listening to stories of their former primitive lives shared by the reminiscent folks.

Thursday, June 24, 2010

My Kids Make Me Laugh!

I just love the wacky things kids say sometimes. I don't know if other people will find these as humorous as I do, but just for fun I'm going to post some things my kids have said recently that have made me chuckle:
From Seth:
"Can I have a bigger one than a little one?"
From Eliana:
"I nibbled her nose with my nose."

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

The Lord Is Risen!

Eliana and Seth Re-enact the Triumphal Entry

Sunday, March 28, 2010

A Random Post About Some Things We Did This Week


Life is getting busier again. Now that Ashley is over a month old, I don't feel like I have as much of an excuse to be home-bound and laid back. But being busy is good—it's even better when the business leads to productivity J
Chris passed his PMP exam this week which he's been studying for over the past 5 months. He came out above average which did not surprise me, of course. So now he is Project Manager certified, and I'm mighty proud of his hard work and accomplishment.

Saturday, March 27, 2010

Look Who's One Month Old!

Technically, she's five weeks old -- today! How is it possible for such a little bundle to impact her whole family so significantly? This is the third time I've had an infant to nurture and protect, yet sometimes everything still feels so new. Both new and familiar. Those tiny squeaks and snorts in the middle of the night, the scrunched up face when she's waking up from a nap, those involuntary squirms and stretches that make me go, "Oh yah, that's what I was feeling when she was bunched up inside me." It's been wonderful having a newborn in the house again. I'm loading up on all those snuggles and soft-baby-head-kisses that make a mommy's heart so happy.
So, what's Miss Ashley K. up to these days?  She still sleeps a lot (yeah!) but is starting to have a little more awake time. She's definitely becoming more alert during her awake times and is making eye contact and tracking things a bit. She's been working on finding her thumb and is reaching towards those colorful dangling toys on her Baby Gym. She's even trying to smile I think.
Big Sis and Bro seem to have adjusted to the new littlest family member. Eliana fills the role of big sister quite well for a 4-year-old. Her loving gets a bit too enthusiastic at times, and I have to remind her often not to touch the baby's mouth and face, but she adores her little sister and is really doing well overall. It has been fun to watch her nurturing skills take shape over the past month. She enjoyes washing Ashley's clothes, tucking blankets around her, and playing Peek-A-Boo when Baby gets fussy. She takes a lot of pride in introducing Ashley to visitors or people who want to take a peek at the newborn when we're out and about: "This is Baby Ashley, and she's one month old!"
Seth took longer to get used to having a new sibling. He was apprehensive at first, saying things like, "Mom, can you make sure Baby Ashley doesn't eat my hockey puck?" But he has slowly warmed up to her. More and more he wants to hold her and give her kisses. A few times he has even offered his treasured "night-night" (his blankie that he sleeps with) to Ashley--a very precious gift indeed. Of course, he always ends up taking it back when it's bed time, but the jesture is very, very sweet. He seems to understand more the significance of being a big brother and is learning to like the idea of having someone to protect and who will look up to him. The first few weeks after Ashley's birth, Seth was understandably reclusive, a bit surly, and clingy. But the old Seth is emerging again--his little shenanigans, jokes, goofy faces, and joviality are resurfacing.
Here are some of my favorite pictures of the kids that were taken over the past week:

My three kiddos :)


Close up . . .

Checking out those fingers . . .

Almost as big as Eliana's "monkey monkey" :)